Top Sexual Aids is a blog aimed at couples interested in improving their sexual relationship. It does this by discussing many topics including the use of sex toys such as dildos, vibrators and many other sex aids. It's not at all unnatural for a couple to find after many years of marriage that they no longer experience the same sexual excitement they used to in the early days. Introducing sex aids into the relationship can awaken that excitement but only if both partners agree to it. I feel it more important to experiment with sex aids, whether it be a dildo, a cock ring or simply the use of aromatic massage oils to bring that excitement back to the relationship than to go without and possibly lose your partner in their search of sexual fulfillment. This is what this sex aids blog is all about.

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Finding The G Spot Saga Where Is The Elusive G Spot

Thursday, February 24th, 2011 at 7:40 pm  
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Journey to the G-SpotYou know, I’ve been thinking about the elusive G-Spot and I reckon it would make for a great blockbuster series of movies, something along the line of Harrison Ford’s Raiders Of The Lost Ark. Perhaps we could call it Raiders Of The Missing G-Spot and our illustrious adventure would be Lucky Larry. Then there would be the sequel which we would call The Valley Of Doom because after all that exploring Larry still wasn’t able to come up with the goods and we have one really frustrated woman on our hands. Then finally we would have Lucky Larry and the Last Crusade where he finally manages to track down the that pesky little G-Spot Spot and the series ends with one of the most climatic orgasms ever seen on the big screen.

Finding the G-Spot

Then again maybe we would be tackle it from a science fiction point of view and do something along the lines of the classic movie The Fantastic Voyage! Only instead of Proteus the nuclear submarine trying to save the life of a bloke with a brain tumour we would have a miniature battery powered dildo with a glass eye looking for that special spot. Running the ship would be Lucky Larry and the buxom Fanny Adams. You would think that Fanny Adams would be able to lead Larry in the right direction but even she was lost in that dark pulsating cavern.

Is it any wonder that so many people find it so hard to find. It’s not like you can feel and see it like the clitoris. Nope, they tell you it’s in there somewhere and you believe them so why can’t you find the bloody thing? The search for the G-Spot Spot is so famous they even joke about it.

Q. What is the difference between a G-spot and a golf ball?
A. A guy will spend twenty minutes looking for a golf ball!

G-Spot MouseIf only there were explicit directions or a sexual GPS system to help us poor blokes out. I’ve even heard there was prototype for a G-Spot mouse. What a waste that would be unless it came with a G-Spot homing device, now that would come in really handy, just set it and watch it go.

I’m not ashamed to admit it, I’ve never found the G-Spot and if I did it would probably have been so fleeting it went unnoticed. I reckon some instruction was all I needed. Perhaps a copy of Female Ejaculation: Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm would have helped me, especially if what’s written about it is true.

EXPERIENCE THE ULTIMATE ORGASM

Do you want amazing, mind-blowing sexual ecstasy–full-body, multiple and extended orgasms, as well as the elusive and mysterious experience of female ejaculation?

In this book, you’ll learn how to awaken your secret orgasmic trigger, the G-spot. With step-by-step instruction for both men and women, this book shows how to give and receive incredibly powerful G-spot orgasms that take you to the ultimate point of pleasure–female ejaculation.

You may have heard the widespread myth that only a select few women have the ability to achieve an orgasm heightened by ejaculation. Don’t believe it. With the correct stimulation, any woman can enjoy the full-body satisfaction that comes from the total orgasmic release of female ejaculation.

In Female Ejaculation you’ll find answers to all your questions:

  • What is female ejaculation?
  • Where is the G-spot?
  • How is the G-spot best stimulated?
  • How can I experience female ejaculation?

Then again perhaps a DVD put together by experts would be a better guide; Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to the G-Spot. This DVD has several great reviews including this one.

What I love about Tristan Taormino’s work is how well she combines real sexually educational material with very hot erotic scenes. This DVD continues in that tradition. The material was informative with lots of spoken and written instruction during the workshop scenes and during the demonstration scenes. The pace of the material is just right, with a good balance of workshop/instructional time and beautiful models demonstrating the techniques. The interviews with the actors is nice too as they share their own real world and professional experiences. I appreciated the layout for the scene selections which provided many options for selecting which material to view and/or review and also for how to view it – for example being able to view the hot scenes again without the informative bubbles.

If you are interested in learning about the pleasures of G-spot stimulation you should definitely add this DVD to your collection.

Finally, especially how this blog is all about sexual aids, I think it’s only fair that I include a link to the Wild G-Spot Vibrator.
Wild G-Spot Vibrator
This baby is supposed to stimulate you all over not just your clit! It’s completely Odor Free and on of their most popular vibrators! Sleek and stylish, this futuristic clitoral vibrator comes equipped to satisfy even the most hard-to-please woman by focusing on three key erogenous zones and not just your clit like most other vibes!

The Wild G Vibrator is 6.5″ long and 1.5″ wide with a curved shaft for G Spot stimulation. The vibrator’s completely waterproof  Rabbit ear clitoral stimulator is made of smooth, flexible silicone. It has multiple speeds and only requires 3 AA batteries which are sold separately.

The special Triple-Pronged Stimulators are designed to tickle and tease your clitoris and the sensitive surrounding nerves as well to further enhance your pleasure and deliver stronger orgasms. The Spinning Metal Beads massage your G Spot, labia and other erogenous zones feeling just like tongue rings exploring your body! The Curved G Spot Tip spins and wiggles in a circular motion to provide you with a more life-like experience while also stimulating your entire vagina. Made from unscented silicone, this G Spot rabbit vibrator lacks the strong odor often found with comparable jelly or rubber sex toys. Furthermore, the silicone design is more durable allowing for more energetic use as well as increased durability. The Wild G Spot Vibrator is compatible with water-based and petroleum-based lubes and safe for use with condoms.

All I can say is if this baby can’t find it for youthen nothing will.


Stimulates you all over not just your clit! Completely Odor Free!One of our most popular vibrators! Sleek and stylish, this futuristic clitoral vibrator comes equipped to satisfy even the most hard-to-please woman by focusing on three key erogenous zones and not just your clit like most other vibes! Wild G Vibrator is 6.5″ long and 1.5″ wide Curved Shaft for G Spot stimulation Vibrator is completely waterproof Rabbit ear clitoral stimulator Made of smooth, flexible silicone Mutiple speeds Requires 3 AA batteries, sold separately The special Triple-Pronged Stimulators are designed to tickle and tease your clitoris and the sensitive surrounding nerves as well to further enhance your pleasure and deliver stronger orgasms. The Spinning Metal Beads massage your G Spot, labia and other erogenous zones feeling just like tongue rings exploring your body! The Curved G Spot Tip spins and wiggles in a circular motion to provide you with a more buy generic cytotec life-like experience while also stimulating your entire vagina. Made from unscented silicone, this G Spot rabbit vibrator lacks the strong odor often found with comparable jelly or rubber sex toys. Furthermore, the silicone design is more durable allowing for more energetic use as well as increased durability. The Wild G Spot Vibrator is compatible with water-based and petroleum-based lubes and safe for use with condoms. The vibrator measures 6.5 inches long from tip to bottom and 1.5 inches wide, with roughly 4 insertable inches. Choose from 3 vibration and 3 rotation speeds. Requires 3 AA batteries, sold separately. Check out all the vibrators Adam and Eve offers.

Cunnilingus The Do’s And Don’ts And Oral Sex Techniques

Friday, December 3rd, 2010 at 6:52 pm  
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Awhile back I did a post on how to get a blow job and I discussed things that may be preventing you from getting a blow job and ways of getting around those obstacles. I also left relevant links to resources on how to give a good blow job. Well I thought it was only fair that we do something for the ladies so this post is all about cunnilingus, the act of orally stimulating the female genitals. Now that word may be a little hard for some people to wrap their tongue around ;) so let’s look at some other words that people may be more familiar with.

  • Eating Pussy
  • Muff Dive: These days this doesn’t make as much sense as more women get Brazilians
  • Going Downtown
  • Carpet Munch: Again like muff dive it’s not entirely relevant a lot of the times
  • Eat someone out
  • Pearl diving: relating directly to the clitoris

Anyway, I think you get the idea. I can’t help but wonder though what would happen if some aliens got hold of some oral sex manual and took it literally :D Now, I’m not proclaiming to be an expert on pleasing a woman orally but I have learned a few things.

  1. Some women can be pretty sensitive down there so it’s not a good idea to get stuck into it straight away. Leave it to a little later in the game and start slow.
  2. Be gentle, and don’t ask stupid questions like’ do you like it this way?’ That’s almost as stupid as a woman saying ‘does my ass look big in this dress?’ If you have to ask anything it’s best to give her a choice as in, ‘do you like it softer or harder?’
  3. Be attentive to her needs: She may gently try to move your head away. This means she’s not quite ready so don’t persist. There are other delicacies on a woman’s body that you can give your attention to.
  4. When you think it’s time don’t just go straight to it. Work your way down slowly. After a lingering kiss, you could work on her ear lobes, the nape of her neck, her breasts, tummy, belly button, around one thigh, then the next. Then you may even kiss her vagina gently and wait for a reaction. All going well you can lick around the lips and then gently tackle the clitoris.
  5. Some women may want to achieve an orgasm though oral sex but some prefer penetration. Again be aware for signs so that you know when to stop.

How do you know if your performing oral sex ? The best way is to be attentive. Listen to her breathing. Are there sounds of pleasure? Is he moving her body in appreciation? If you’re attentive enough you will know when your over doing something or you stopped doing something that was working.

Naturally I can’t include all the ways on how to give great oral sex to a woman in one post so I’ll provide links to resources that you may find useful.

OK, you don’t like reading texts, well then, how about some instructional videos? ;)

I’m sure there is something there that will help you in your endeavors to be a great oral sex expert :)


Can Sex Aids Save A Marriage?

Saturday, November 6th, 2010 at 9:20 am  
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I was thinking about this the other day and I was wondering what sort of reaction I would get from people if I was to ask them this question while they were going about their daily business. I can just imagine the look of shock on some people faces whilst others merely giggled.

Naturally this can’t be a simple yes or no answer. It would all depend on what caused the marital problems. Now, if the marital problems was of a sexual nature then perhaps one could assume that the right sexual aids could help to bring a husband and wife together.

Perhaps it would make more sense if we were to think beyond the premise that sex aids consist purely of sex toys such as vibrators, DSC01213I’m Not Getting Enough Sex What Can I Do I wrote about certain things a man could do that would make his wife more open to his amorous intentions. It’s quite possible in certain situations that this alone could strengthen a marriage before it reached the point of no return.

I also wrote a post, Introducing Sexual Aids To The Relationship, where I wrote about ways they could be introduced into a relationship where one couple may be a little hesitant about it. There’s also a couple of good books that some of you may like to read.

  1. The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
  2. Sex Toys 101: A Playfully Uninhibited Guide

Personally though, I feel that there may be instances where couples may need more than just books and instructions and in these situations if couples are open to explore other avenues then perhaps there is a place for sexual aids in cementing a loving relationship.

How To Get A Blow Job

Wednesday, August 11th, 2010 at 3:41 am  
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I reckon it’s pretty safe to say that not all women like to give blow jobs. Of those that do not all women are willing to let the male ejaculate into their mouth and of those that do not all women are willing to swallow the semen. The problem is that most men like blow jobs and so the question is what can a bloke do that would increase his chance of getting one?

Perhaps some of the answers lie in another question.

What’s stopping some women from giving blow jobs?

Could ignorance be a factor? Perhaps not ever having given one they do not want to be seen as being inept at it or are scared that they will get it all wrong? Naturally us blokes don’t mind taking the teacher role but we may never get the chance until we can remove the fear factor.

Perhaps introducing an instructive video, something like How to Give A World-Class Blow Job will do the trick? After all this is something that you can watch together and imagine the fun trialing out some of the techniques? Then again you may want to get some books on the subject. Two that come to mind include, Unzipped: How to Give the Perfect Blow Job and Going Down: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Him the Best Blow Job of His Life.

Naturally it’s not all about you so while it’s probably be a good idea to get a copy of  The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure (Ultimate Guides Series) so that you can learn a few things about how to please her.

I’m Not Putting That Thing In My Mouth…You Pee With It!

I imagine that some women knowing that the penis is used to urinate equate the whole putting in the mouth idea as being unsanitary. If that is the case it’s essential that we make sure we keep it in pristine condition making sure it’s as clean as humanly possible.

If this comes out in conversation it’s a good idea to assure he that you shake every drop after urinating so that there is no chance of any pee going into her mouth. You could even shower together so that she see it’s all nice and clean.

If she feels that way about your penis she may very well feel the same about her vagina, so perhaps during your next session, as part of your foreplay, you may want to go down on her, proving that you have no qualms about her love juice.

Whatever you do though don’t use the ‘I did you now you do me’ routine as that just shows what an insensitive bastard you are. Give her all the time she needs and she will love you all the more for it.

It Tastes Awful

OK, while some women like it others may not. You may be thinking that there isn’t all that much you can do about the taste, I know that’s what I originally thought, but what if there was something that a bloke could do that would improve the taste? It seems feasible, I mean I’ve heard if you put crushed garlic in your socks you would have garlic breath in a matter of minutes, and mothers have to be careful of what they eat or drink as it could affect their breast milk. So why couldn’t there be something a man can take that would improve the taste of his semen?

Enter Yummy Cum which is supposed to be stacked full of potent fruit extracts and natural anti oxidants. Apart from improving your overall health it’s also supposed to dramatically improve the flavor, sweetness and smell of your cum.

Now I can’t vouch for this because I’ve never tried it, but I can see the potential if it works exactly as the manufacturer says it does. Even if you’re already getting blow jobs imagine the surprise on her face if you surprised her by taking Yummy Cum and giving her a new taste sensation.


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Sex Tips For Men Learning How To Satisfy A Woman

Monday, June 28th, 2010 at 9:20 pm  
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Some say the problem with a lot of men is that they are selfish lovers, they’re only interested in fulfilling their sexual needs and not that of their partner. Is this part of the man’s psyche? After all most media portray men as tough, aggressive, competitive and as having the need to be winners. You see movies where the sole reason for man’s being is the conquest of all hurdles they come across including women.

These same movies may portray house chores as being woman’s work and that alone is man’s greatest downfall because they expect women to do all the housework and be at a man’s beck and call when their sexual urges need satisfying. In my post I’m Not Getting Enough Sex What Can I Do? I set certain rules that men should follow if they would to get a little more time in the sack.

If a man really wants to please a woman they need to know that while we can get a hard on almost instantaneously it takes a woman a lot longer to get aroused. There are many books out there that claim to teach men how to please a woman and I find surprising how a lot of them are written by men, as if a man would ever really know how a woman thinks. ;) Personally I think if you want to know what makes a woman tick you need to ask a woman, and keeping that in mind I’ve sourced a few books and DVD’s that you may find illuminating.

  • Drive Her Wild: 100 Sex Tips for Men
  • The Going Down Guide: Tongue Tips and Oral Sex Techniques for Men and Women
  • Advanced Oral Sex Techniques #2 Video – Great Lovers are Made, Not Born
  • Loving Sex: What Women Want
  • Smoldering Embers: Hot Erotic Stories and Sex Tips to Light a Couple’s Fire

    • That last book was something that I threw in, a book that couples may find interesting as;

    Smoldering Embers is a brilliant and exciting book that offers monogamous couples tools to keep the spark alive and the fire burning in their relationships. These powerful tools come in the form of erotic stories and sex tips. Each story takes place between a loving and passionate couple and serves not only as a source of physical arousal, but also promotes new ideas and techniques for a couple to incorporate into their sexual repertoire. Each sex tip is focused on deepening the sexual experience as a couple. The two together provide you with an enticing menu of sex tips, techniques, and secrets guaranteed to keep the sizzle, passion and excitement alive in your relationship.

    Keep the Fire Burning in Your Relationship Ignite Passion and Excitement Learn How to be a Fantastic Lover Discover New and Exciting Ideas and Techniques Rediscover a Sense of Playfulness and Adventure Improve Intimacy and Communication Create a Satisfying and Successful Sexual Relationship Stimulate Arousal and Desire Intensify Orgasms

    Smoldering Embers will help couples open up and explore their sexuality as a couple and develop a successful sexual relationship that will continue to grow deeper, more passionate, exciting, and satisfying within the context of love and monogamy.
    About the Author
    Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., is a writer and sex educator/advisor specializing in sexual intimacy and erotic communication between couples to keep the fire and passion alive. She holds a Bachelors degree in Psychology and a Masters degree in Counseling.


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