Top Sexual Aids is a blog aimed at couples interested in improving their sexual relationship. It does this by discussing many topics including the use of sex toys such as dildos, vibrators and many other sex aids. It's not at all unnatural for a couple to find after many years of marriage that they no longer experience the same sexual excitement they used to in the early days. Introducing sex aids into the relationship can awaken that excitement but only if both partners agree to it. I feel it more important to experiment with sex aids, whether it be a dildo, a cock ring or simply the use of aromatic massage oils to bring that excitement back to the relationship than to go without and possibly lose your partner in their search of sexual fulfillment. This is what this sex aids blog is all about.

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Having everything is very much a perception and sometimes you have to think out of the box to come up with that unique gift for Valentines Day. Most people will come up with roses or chocolates or some other mundane thing, but I’m going to help you find something out of the ordinary and seeing as to how this blog is all about sex, why not something of a sexual nature.

You may recall my post, A Special Gift For The Person Who Has Everything, where I highlighted some unique products from Adam and Eve Toys? Well they have extended an offer just for Valentines Day: 50% Off One Item! Coupon Code:Heart10 Valid From 2/1/2010-2/15/2010 and let me tell you these guys offer way more than toys. Let’s take a sneak peak at some of stuff you can find there.

FOR HER


Tempest Bra & Panty Set
: This one is pretty HOT! See it from all angles, use it to tempt your lover on the night. Sometimes it’s not what you show, it’s what you are tantalizingly hiding from him.

Heart Pasties
3 Pairs: Dazzle Your Lover with these sexy nipple pasties. They will show him that you’re ready for any bedroom games! The cloth pasties are heart shaped, with a mirrored centerpiece that flashes and sparkles! Package includes 3 pairs.

Bedroom Nurse Costume
: This is great for those who want to get into a bit of role playing. With this sexy nurse outfit you can do things to him that he would only ever dream would happen in a hospital.

Erotica Teddy
: Unlike one that I mentioned above, this hot little number does not leave much to the imagination. If you wore this while serving dinner I can assure you the meal would be a short one.

Remote Control Fantasy Panty
: This is one that is made for both him and her. She wears it and he controls the amount of pleasure she gets. This is a remote controlled vibrating underwear. Dare you wear it out, and if you do when will he choose to tantalize you.

FOR HIM


Major Hardon Camo Thong
: Not that I’ve ever been to drill school but I’ve heard it said that, be “the firstest with the mostest” with a contour pouch that gives the man’s package an enhanced profile! Unlined for commando comfort. 1-inch elastic waist band. Sizes M(32-34), L(36-38), XL(40-42). Made in USA.

Men’s Tank And Brief Set: Made to show off your man’s jewels in a contoured pouch with this stretchy poly/spandex brief. Get him to turn around and display his buns with its open back! Comes with matching sexy stretch mesh tank top. Royal blue.

Pull Tab Thong
: This one is a little different. It a special thong with a tab attached and when you’re good and ready to see his goods––just pull the tab! Velcro snap opens and closes with ease!

Clone-A-WillyExp. 06/30/10: Now here is something really unique. You can actually clone your penis with this erection molding kit. It has everything you need to make a soft rubber dildo of your hard penis – with optional vibrations to please her like never before. Something to remind her of you when you’re not around.

These are just a small sample of what you can find at Adam and Eve Toys, and it’s quite possible, especially as they have such a huge range , that you may decide to buy more that one item. That being the case it may be better to use the following coupon code Get 10% Off Your Entire Order! Coupon Code: TENOFF Expires 06/30/10 instead of the 50% off a single item code that you saw at the beginning of the post.

The question now is, are you daring enough to do something different for Valentines day? ;)

For The Woman That Dislikes Blow Jobs

“My husband wants me to give him a blowjob and I can’t bear to bring myself to do it!”

“I don’t mind giving giving him a blowjob but he want’s me to swallow and I just gag. It’s such a turn off.”

Let’s face it, not all women are comfortable giving a blow job, and even less want to go the whole way by sallowing his semen. So what is a woman to do when she wants to make him happy but can’t bring herself to actually doing something she finds repulsive?

The answer is Mastomatic, a unique sex toy that is designed to give the male the sensation of a realistic blowjob. Just like a real blow job it will stroke the penis up and down and even comes with a fully adjustable speed control giving absolute control over the amount of pleasure felt by the male.

So, you see, it can be just the thing for those couples where blowjobs may be causing a rift in the marriage, but the Mastomatic could be so much more. Imagine those couples where the many may ejaculate too quickly for the woman. There may be such feelings of guilt or inadequacy that any further attempt in lovemaking is lost. If one were to introduce the Mastomatic as part of the foreplay with early ejaculation being the whole purpose of it’s use, there would be no need for the lovemaking to stop. It would continue, only this time the male should last a lot longer.

It would also come in handy for those women who have a low libido or the man who has a higher sex drive. Even when the woman is not in the mood to have sex she could use it on her loved one to release all that pent up emotion bringing him to a climax, one more fulfilling than doing it on his own.

The truth of the matter is that not many men would buy one for himself, but for a woman, to show him how much she loves him, perhaps it would make the perfect gift, and seeing how Valentines day is just around the corner, what better time than right now.

A Special Gift For The Person Who Has Everything

With Xmas being just around the corner, there will be a lot of people scratching their heads wondering what to buy their loved one. One often wonders what to buy someone who is perceived to have everything. Perhaps this year it is time to think out of the box.

There is something that every healthy sexual couple has in common, and that is the desire that they are pleasuring their mate as much as they are being pleasured, and when you have been together for awhile, it’s not unusual to wonder if this is the case.

Something to keep in mind is no matter if you’re newly weds or if you’ve been married for some years there is nothing wrong with giving that special gift that may just spice up things in the bedroom, or if you’re adventurous in any other room of the house.

Here are a few possibilities for some sexy special Xmas gifts.

For Her

There are a lot of women who think of themselves last, especially if they have kids, and the last thing that they would buy for themselves is some sexy lingerie. So, as the man of the house, you would be doing both of you a favor if you were to consider a nice sexy Wet Look Halter w/ Crotchless Panty & Garter Set for only $27.95. Or if that is a little too raunchy and suggestive you may want to settle for a lovely Crystal Adorned Teddy for only $26.95.

The fact is that they have an enormous selection of sexy outfits and lingerie, too many for me to mention in one post, and you can even get Free Shipping, plus 2 Free Gifts at adamevetoys.com!

NEWS FLASH! You can actually get 50% Off Any One Item at Adamevetoys.com Coupon Code:JOLLY09 Exp: 12/25/09. Yep, this special will only last until 25th of December so you will want to get in early. I’m not sure if the free shipping applies if using this coupon, but then there’s no harm in trying.

The Vibratex Flower Blossom Vibrating Clitoral Stimulator would make a lovely choice as I’ve heard it was named sex toy of the year. Being a unique clitoral and g-spot vibrator, one that is designed to be worn while you make love. Here is a little excerpt from their website.

The unique We-Vibe, as featured in Cosmopolitan, The Independent, The Sun, Mens Health, Reuters, Playboy and many more, was voted the best sex toy of the year.

The We-Vibe is tiny but has 2 fantastically powerful motors and a supple shape to fit you perfectly and stimulate your g spot and clitoris with exquisite pleasure waves.

Even though it can be worn during intercourse (giving him a rather nice vibe also!) you can just wear your We-Vibe for secret pleasure around the house.

The We-Vibe has a snug fit and is quiet enough to wear under your clothes for secret fun.Try taking it for a walk, in the car or to liven up your next train journey.

The possibilities are endless.

You will find this special product under the “Luxury Sex Toys” section. This is only two selections from hundreds that you can choose from. Imagine how easy it will be to buy something special for almost any occasion.

For Him

Now when it comes to men there are somethings that they probably never consider buying for themselves, and there is one product that may even help out some women. I’m talking about the women who consistently get asked by their man to give them a blow job. Now while some are fine with this others persevere only because they do not want to disappoint. Well ladies, why not by him a male masturbator, or more specifically, the Mastomatic. Designed to work the penis like a real blowjob this could be the perfect foreplay for any couple, and when you have a real headache you can send him off on his own.

Naturally, you can also follow the above example and buy yourself some sexy lingerie or perhaps something to play out one of his favorite sexual fantasies thereby killing two birds with one stone, something for him and for you.

Whatever you decide, once you consider sex toys and other sexual aids, you have to admit, the possibilities for gifts become endless.

I love being a blogger because you always learn learn something new. I started this blog with some trepidation because although I always thought I was quite proficient in the sex department I knew with some certainty that, what with modern technology and all, I wasn’t keeping up with the times. Little did I know how far behind the times I had actually fallen.

Take cock rings for an example. If someone had asked me what one was before writing this post I would have guessed it had something to do with cock fighting ring!

Thankfully I know know a little bit more about them. I now know that they can be used to enhance the sexual pleasure as well as having the ability to provide a longer, harder and thicker erection. Some cock rings can be specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris heightening the woman’s pleasure as well as the mans.

This Wikipedia article on cock rings is really quite informative, and you should pay particularly close attention to the medical issues as some problems can arise if worn too tightly or for too long a period.

Like everything these days there are a lot to choose from, including vibrating ones. While surfing I also noticed that a lot of women actually buy them as gifts for their husbands, as a special treat that both get to enjoy. Maybe I should leave this post on the computer so that the wife will see it.

Sometimes, a change in the environment is all that it takes to stimulate the old sexual urges. Think about it, you been together for years doing it the same old way in the same places, it’s no wonder that sex just isn’t as exiting as it used to be. What you really need is some uniquely styled furniture designed specifically for your sexual enjoyment.

What every sexually active person would love is something that transforms ordinary beds and bedrooms into creative sex terrain by employing angles, elevations, curves, textures, environments and motion. After all, sometimes all it takes for that added pleasure is trying new angles and positions, ones that give deeper penetration thereby leading to greater pleasure. The trouble is that no matter how fit a couple may be, maintaining the position necessary to obtain these angles can be quite tiring and the last thing that you want in the throes of sexual pleasure is to get a cramp. Luckily I’ve managed to source a site whose one main aim is to give their customers the opportunity to achieve the ultimate sexual experience.


Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

The Liberator series is just one of the many superbly crafted products from Liberator’s. bedroom adventure gear. Liberator is a luxury and love style brand that celebrates intimacy by inspiring romantic imagination. Established with the conviction that sensual pleasure and fulfillment are essential to a well-lived life, Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear empowers exploration, fantasy and the communication of desire, no matter the person’s shape, size or ability.


Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

If you are looking for something to reignite that sexual spark in your relationship I reckon you should take a look at the products available at Liberator ranging from sex toys and lingerie to role playing items as well as a library full of books and videos.

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