Top Sexual Aids is a blog aimed at couples interested in improving their sexual relationship. It does this by discussing many topics including the use of sex toys such as dildos, vibrators and many other sex aids. It's not at all unnatural for a couple to find after many years of marriage that they no longer experience the same sexual excitement they used to in the early days. Introducing sex aids into the relationship can awaken that excitement but only if both partners agree to it. I feel it more important to experiment with sex aids, whether it be a dildo, a cock ring or simply the use of aromatic massage oils to bring that excitement back to the relationship than to go without and possibly lose your partner in their search of sexual fulfillment. This is what this sex aids blog is all about.

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Sliquid Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator

The Latest In Oral Sex Simulators

I’ve done a couple of posts on oral sex including, Cunnilingus The Do’s And Don’ts And Oral Sex Techniques, How Sexual Health Is Impoved By The Book On Oral Sex and For The Woman That Dislikes Blow Jobs. That last one highlighted a product called Mastomatic which simulated a woman giving a man a blow job. That would be a great product for a wife who knows her how much her husband wants a blow job but just can’t bear to bring herself to do it. At the time I thought it would be a great idea if something similar was available for the woman because not every man wants to go down on the woman he loves. Well guess what? There is such a product.

I mentioned it in the post Vibrators.com Ten Most Popular Vibrators and as you can see from that post it was actually one of the 10 most popular vibrators! As I’ve had quite a few people ask for reviews on the vibrators I write about on this blog I’ve been hunting around for a way to satisfy this need as I just don’t have the resources to do it all myself.

I am happy to say that I’ve found a way to import the reviews from Amazon, one of the largest online stores in the world and also the most trusted. I’m sure you guys are going to love this new feature as you will get reviews from actual customers rather than from someone who is only interested in selling the product.

And so, without further ado I give you a review of the Sliquid Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator!

Sliquid Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator

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Sqweel is a revolution in orgasms. The sensational new patent-pending oral sex simulator has a wheel of 10 teasing tongues that will lap you to orgasm time and time again. Forget everything you thought you knew about sex toys, Sqweel is different. It doesn't vibrate. It doesn't thrust. It doesn't just provide quick, semi-satisfying orgasms. It's unique wheel of tongues provides easily controlled stimulation at just the speed you need to deliver deeper, long-lasting, more real sheet-clenching orgasms- whenever you want them.

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  • Unique hand-held oral sex simulator
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Finding The G Spot Saga Where Is The Elusive G Spot

Journey to the G-SpotYou know, I’ve been thinking about the elusive G-Spot and I reckon it would make for a great blockbuster series of movies, something along the line of Harrison Ford’s Raiders Of The Lost Ark. Perhaps we could call it Raiders Of The Missing G-Spot and our illustrious adventure would be Lucky Larry. Then there would be the sequel which we would call The Valley Of Doom because after all that exploring Larry still wasn’t able to come up with the goods and we have one really frustrated woman on our hands. Then finally we would have Lucky Larry and the Last Crusade where he finally manages to track down the that pesky little G-Spot Spot and the series ends with one of the most climatic orgasms ever seen on the big screen.

Finding the G-Spot

Then again maybe we would be tackle it from a science fiction point of view and do something along the lines of the classic movie The Fantastic Voyage! Only instead of Proteus the nuclear submarine trying to save the life of a bloke with a brain tumour we would have a miniature battery powered dildo with a glass eye looking for that special spot. Running the ship would be Lucky Larry and the buxom Fanny Adams. You would think that Fanny Adams would be able to lead Larry in the right direction but even she was lost in that dark pulsating cavern.

Is it any wonder that so many people find it so hard to find. It’s not like you can feel and see it like the clitoris. Nope, they tell you it’s in there somewhere and you believe them so why can’t you find the bloody thing? The search for the G-Spot Spot is so famous they even joke about it.

Q. What is the difference between a G-spot and a golf ball?
A. A guy will spend twenty minutes looking for a golf ball!

G-Spot MouseIf only there were explicit directions or a sexual GPS system to help us poor blokes out. I’ve even heard there was prototype for a G-Spot mouse. What a waste that would be unless it came with a G-Spot homing device, now that would come in really handy, just set it and watch it go.

I’m not ashamed to admit it, I’ve never found the G-Spot and if I did it would probably have been so fleeting it went unnoticed. I reckon some instruction was all I needed. Perhaps a copy of Female Ejaculation: Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm would have helped me, especially if what’s written about it is true.

EXPERIENCE THE ULTIMATE ORGASM

Do you want amazing, mind-blowing sexual ecstasy–full-body, multiple and extended orgasms, as well as the elusive and mysterious experience of female ejaculation?

In this book, you’ll learn how to awaken your secret orgasmic trigger, the G-spot. With step-by-step instruction for both men and women, this book shows how to give and receive incredibly powerful G-spot orgasms that take you to the ultimate point of pleasure–female ejaculation.

You may have heard the widespread myth that only a select few women have the ability to achieve an orgasm heightened by ejaculation. Don’t believe it. With the correct stimulation, any woman can enjoy the full-body satisfaction that comes from the total orgasmic release of female ejaculation.

In Female Ejaculation you’ll find answers to all your questions:

  • What is female ejaculation?
  • Where is the G-spot?
  • How is the G-spot best stimulated?
  • How can I experience female ejaculation?

Then again perhaps a DVD put together by experts would be a better guide; Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to the G-Spot. This DVD has several great reviews including this one.

What I love about Tristan Taormino’s work is how well she combines real sexually educational material with very hot erotic scenes. This DVD continues in that tradition. The material was informative with lots of spoken and written instruction during the workshop scenes and during the demonstration scenes. The pace of the material is just right, with a good balance of workshop/instructional time and beautiful models demonstrating the techniques. The interviews with the actors is nice too as they share their own real world and professional experiences. I appreciated the layout for the scene selections which provided many options for selecting which material to view and/or review and also for how to view it – for example being able to view the hot scenes again without the informative bubbles.

If you are interested in learning about the pleasures of G-spot stimulation you should definitely add this DVD to your collection.

Finally, especially how this blog is all about sexual aids, I think it’s only fair that I include a link to the Wild G-Spot Vibrator.
Wild G-Spot Vibrator
This baby is supposed to stimulate you all over not just your clit! It’s completely Odor Free and on of their most popular vibrators! Sleek and stylish, this futuristic clitoral vibrator comes equipped to satisfy even the most hard-to-please woman by focusing on three key erogenous zones and not just your clit like most other vibes!

The Wild G Vibrator is 6.5″ long and 1.5″ wide with a curved shaft for G Spot stimulation. The vibrator’s completely waterproof  Rabbit ear clitoral stimulator is made of smooth, flexible silicone. It has multiple speeds and only requires 3 AA batteries which are sold separately.

The special Triple-Pronged Stimulators are designed to tickle and tease your clitoris and the sensitive surrounding nerves as well to further enhance your pleasure and deliver stronger orgasms. The Spinning Metal Beads massage your G Spot, labia and other erogenous zones feeling just like tongue rings exploring your body! The Curved G Spot Tip spins and wiggles in a circular motion to provide you with a more life-like experience while also stimulating your entire vagina. Made from unscented silicone, this G Spot rabbit vibrator lacks the strong odor often found with comparable jelly or rubber sex toys. Furthermore, the silicone design is more durable allowing for more energetic use as well as increased durability. The Wild G Spot Vibrator is compatible with water-based and petroleum-based lubes and safe for use with condoms.

All I can say is if this baby can’t find it for youthen nothing will.


Stimulates you all over not just your clit! Completely Odor Free!One of our most popular vibrators! Sleek and stylish, this futuristic clitoral vibrator comes equipped to satisfy even the most hard-to-please woman by focusing on three key erogenous zones and not just your clit like most other vibes! Wild G Vibrator is 6.5″ long and 1.5″ wide Curved Shaft for G Spot stimulation Vibrator is completely waterproof Rabbit ear clitoral stimulator Made of smooth, flexible silicone Mutiple speeds Requires 3 AA batteries, sold separately The special Triple-Pronged Stimulators are designed to tickle and tease your clitoris and the sensitive surrounding nerves as well to further enhance your pleasure and deliver stronger orgasms. The Spinning Metal Beads massage your G Spot, labia and other erogenous zones feeling just like tongue rings exploring your body! The Curved G Spot Tip spins and wiggles in a circular motion to provide you with a more buy generic cytotec life-like experience while also stimulating your entire vagina. Made from unscented silicone, this G Spot rabbit vibrator lacks the strong odor often found with comparable jelly or rubber sex toys. Furthermore, the silicone design is more durable allowing for more energetic use as well as increased durability. The Wild G Spot Vibrator is compatible with water-based and petroleum-based lubes and safe for use with condoms. The vibrator measures 6.5 inches long from tip to bottom and 1.5 inches wide, with roughly 4 insertable inches. Choose from 3 vibration and 3 rotation speeds. Requires 3 AA batteries, sold separately. Check out all the vibrators Adam and Eve offers.

Buying The Ultimate Vibrator Is It Better Than A Dildo

The Difference Between A Dildo & A Vibrator?

The truth is that while some vibrators can be classed as dildos dildos are not vibrators, basically because they don’t vibrate. Generally speaking a dildo takes the shape of a penis and comes in different colors and sizes and is can also be made of different material. The main function of a dildo is that it’s designed for insertion.

Vibrators on the other hand are a lot more diversified and come in all shapes and sizes. Some are designed so they can be inserted and some purely for stimulating the clitoris. Because there are so many vibrators I think it best we take a look at a sample to see how diversified they can be.

The Thrusting Jack Rabbit Vibrator

Thrusting Jack Rabbit Vibrator

G Spot finder

This vibrator is unique in that it thrusts away while tickling your clit at the same time! It’s revolutionary design eliminates jamming for greater durability New and improved, this rabbit vibrator features the best thrusting sensation your friends at Adam and Eve have ever tested. Offering a little something for everyone, this rabbit vibrator works your 3 most sensitive erogenous zones clit, G Spot and vagina to give you orgasm after orgasm! Tip thrusts in and out while beads spin to massage your G Spot and pussy Powerful rabbit ears tickle and tease your clit 7 different vibration patterns and 6 rotation and thrusting speeds! Waterproof for fun in the shower or tub 2 independent controllers for vibration and rotation/thrusting Rabbit vibrator measures 8 inches long and 1.5 inches wide, insertable Requires 4 AA batteries, sold separately The most innovative feature is the redesigned thrusting mechanism. While other thrusting vibrators are prone to jam and break, this one is powered by an extra-strong piston and 3 rows of spinning beads for greater strength and durability! This keeps the vibrator pumping away at your pussy even when if you give it a little squeeze! Meanwhile, a separate row of beads are spinning and twirling against your G Spot and pussy lips, massaging them with a tender touch to make your knees shake. And if that s not enough, a separately powered stimulator is buzzing away at your clit tickling and teasing your love nub until you’re ready to beg for mercy.

This feature-packed vibrator raises the bar even more by offering an amazing 7 vibration and 6 rotation settings giving you 42 different levels to try out. And it s even waterproof so you ll actually look forward to getting out of bed for your shower on Monday morning.

The Thrusting Jack Rabbit Vibrator is made from jelly and measures 8 inches long and 1.5 inches across at its widest point. The sex toy features multiple controllers so you can change the vibration and thrusting/rotation speeds separately giving you dozens of options for sexual play.

The Twirling Cuddle

According to some the Vibrator of Twirling Cuddle is considered to be the vibrator of the year. This vibrator is unique in that rather than just vibrating on the clitoris it vibrates while encircling your clitoris. This means you get a light suction feeling that’s sure to feel amazing.

The Twirling Cuddle has two powerful vibrating stimulators for internal and external stimulation. The Cuddle Rabbit vibrates at an intense hum. The rotating tip is curved to hit your G-Spot just right. You control the angle of rotation for the best feeling.

The Twirling Cuddle Rabbit is made of a silky and pliable, phthalate-free jelly. It features four speeds of vibration, all of which are very strong. You can use the rotation and vibration together or separate.

The Dreamers Vibrator

The Dreamers Vibrator is an ultra quiet vibrator that one could almost mistake for a dildo. A vibrating dildo that is. It’s a hard smooth vibrator that shakes and rumbles intensely for your pleasure. Dreamers Bliss features very strong vibrations. This multi-speed vibrator has a deep massaging action and a stimulating curved body, complete with hard nubs for added internal and external sensations.

The Silent Vibrations vibe can be used internally or externally. It features a hard, velvet-feel shell that makes the vibrations unbelievably powerful. Because of this vibrator’s unique design, it is quieter than other very strong vibrators. Quiet vibrators are perfect if you have kids or roommates and wish to be discreet. The Dreamers Vibe vibrates from a low quake to an intense purr.

Measurements: 5˝ in length by 1.5˝ in diameter. Takes 2 AA batteries. You can use this vibrator with any lube.

The We-Vibe

What makes this vibrator unique is that it can be worn while having Sex! Here’s what the promotional material has to say about it.

The We-Vibe is the newest innovation in vibrator technology. The We-Vibe is a small silicone vibrator with two vibration points—one that stimulates your clitoris, and one that presses against your G-spot. The We-Vibe is shaped like a C, but has a flexible internal skelaton which allows it to bend to perfectly fit your body.

What’s so amazing about the We-Vibe? It was designed to be worn during sex.

The We-Vibe is the perfect vibrator for sex or solo play. It was engineered to hug your curves, and presses securely against your G-spot when his penis is inside you. The We-Vibe is small and slender (measuring at 3.25 inches in insertable length and 1 inch across), so a penis or dildo can comfortably fit into the vagina along with this pleasurable vibe.

The We-Vibe has two settings of vibration, and seven different pulsation settings. If you choose to use it during sex, he will feel the vibrations as well. We-Vibe users find that many positions work well for the We, from woman-on-top to missionary to doggy style. The We-Vibe is hands-free, whisper-quiet and wireless.

The We-Vibe is extremely versatile. The We performs well in tandem with a dildo, or all by itself during solo play. Because the We-Vibe conforms to your anatomy, you can wear it inside a snug pair of panties for more solo thrills. The We-Vibe is so whisper quiet that no one will be the wiser.

The We-Vibe II is made of medical-grade silicone. It is rechargeable, and each charge provides two hours of pleasure. The We-Vibe features two powerful, quiet motors. The vibration has two settings, low and high, which are controlled by a small slide switch at the base of the We. This waterproof personal massage  can be used in the bath or shower for added versatility.

The We-Vibe comes with a discreet case and its own charger. Because it is constructed of medical-grade silicone, you must use a water-based lubricant with the We-Vibe.

This is just a small sample of vibrators that can be found. There are way too much to be included in one post, but not to worry, all the more reasons for you to come back for future posts.

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Can Sex Aids Save A Marriage?

I was thinking about this the other day and I was wondering what sort of reaction I would get from people if I was to ask them this question while they were going about their daily business. I can just imagine the look of shock on some people faces whilst others merely giggled.

Naturally this can’t be a simple yes or no answer. It would all depend on what caused the marital problems. Now, if the marital problems was of a sexual nature then perhaps one could assume that the right sexual aids could help to bring a husband and wife together.

Perhaps it would make more sense if we were to think beyond the premise that sex aids consist purely of sex toys such as vibrators, DSC01213I’m Not Getting Enough Sex What Can I Do I wrote about certain things a man could do that would make his wife more open to his amorous intentions. It’s quite possible in certain situations that this alone could strengthen a marriage before it reached the point of no return.

I also wrote a post, Introducing Sexual Aids To The Relationship, where I wrote about ways they could be introduced into a relationship where one couple may be a little hesitant about it. There’s also a couple of good books that some of you may like to read.

  1. The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
  2. Sex Toys 101: A Playfully Uninhibited Guide

Personally though, I feel that there may be instances where couples may need more than just books and instructions and in these situations if couples are open to explore other avenues then perhaps there is a place for sexual aids in cementing a loving relationship.

I’m Not Getting Enough Sex What Can I Do?

When reading this post let’s keep one thing in mind, we are no longer part of the stone age so why is that so many blokes act as if they were?

Being a bloke and talking to other blokes I find that a common dilemma that many men have is that once they’ve been married for awhile they just don’t get to have sex as often as they used to and no where near as often as they would like. Naturally it’s not their fault, or is it?

Let’s look at if from a woman’s point of  view. When they’re first married things are hot and there’s always a bit of time for a romp in the hay, but next to no time something starts to cook in the oven and then out pops a baby, and before you know it another may pop out. That beautiful wife of yours now has something else to care for other than your complaining ass.

As a bloke you may not realize it but those little bundles of joy take a hell of a lot of work to look after and demand almost constant attention. Even when they’re asleep you can bet your wife is on tender hooks just waiting for that wail that they know is around the corner demanding for attention.

On top of all that she’s also got to keep the house clean and tidy, shit wouldn’t want to give the man of the house something to complain about now would we? Then there’s the shopping and worrying about what the heck she’s going to make for dinner. When you think about it most of us can come home and forget about work while she lives it all 24/7. And on top of all that you expect her to put out for you? What are you some sort of prehistoric caveman or something.

Truth be told most men don’t appreciate their wives, but if they did I bet they would be more than willing to get your rocks off on a more regular basis. So what can you do to attain this goal, keeping in mind that it’s not just for the sex, it’s because you love her and you want to help her. The sex is just a bonus, and oh what a bonus it is.

  • Don’t just come home from work, give her a peck on the cheek and then sit down watching TV with a beer in your hand, and if you forget the beer you sure as hell don’t want to yell out for her to get you one.
  • Instead take the kids off her hands and attend to their needs for awhile taking some of the stress off her.
  • If you see some chores that need to be done don’t complain about it do it yourself basking in the knowledge that you’re helping her out.
  • If she’s cooking set the table, and when all is finished clear the table and wash the dishes remembering that while you’ve worked 8 hours she’s got a couple of more on you and there is nothing more tiring than being stressed out over your kids.

Believe me just doing this will help out your cause, but not if you do it just for sex because you have to make it into a regular routine. Also don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her. I’m sure that most women feel they are less than beautiful because they just haven’t the time to attend to their appearance as they once had.

Every now and again it’s probably also a good idea to show her how much you appreciate her by giving her something special like a Ferrero Rocher Hazelnut Chocolates 48 count gift box. Flowers are also make a great show of appreciation and when you can get bouquets from as low as $34.99 how could you go wrong.

Another good idea is to plan a night of sensual pleasure with her, and  knowing how those beautiful kids of yours are always on her mind you may want to organize their grandparents to look after then every now an again. You can then take her out to dinner and knowing what awaits you both when you get home only accentuates the sexual juices. If you’re feeling really adventurous you may even bring a sexual toy to the restaurant. I’m talking about a remote controlled vibrator which you can order online at Amazon.

I’m talking about the Trinity Mini Remote Control 10 Speed Egg and what is cool about this is that she wears it why you have control of the remote. One thing that I like about Amazon is that you can view real live comment left by people who have bought and used the products, both positive and negative. Here is what one happy customer had to say;

I read mixed reviews on this product and found myself questioning the purchase afterward, but all of my apprehensions were allayed the first time we used this little gem. The 7 settings allow me to tease my wife in a variety of way, when she least expects it. She says it feels wonderful and is so quite that we can use it in public without the risk of making others aware. It has a great range that allows me to activate the egg from the other room.

The only downside to this product is that it is very easy to activate if you have the remote on your keyring. I had it in my pocket and it ran down the batteries the second day we had it. Other than that, it is a great product I would recommend to anyone looking for a bit of adventure.

By the time you get home things should happen of their own accord. In future posts I will include other ways of increasing your sensual pleasure.

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