When reading this post let’s keep one thing in mind, we are no longer part of the stone age so why is that so many blokes act as if they were?

Being a bloke and talking to other blokes I find that a common dilemma that many men have is that once they’ve been married for awhile they just don’t get to have sex as often as they used to and no where near as often as they would like. Naturally it’s not their fault, or is it?

Let’s look at if from a woman’s point of  view. When they’re first married things are hot and there’s always a bit of time for a romp in the hay, but next to no time something starts to cook in the oven and then out pops a baby, and before you know it another may pop out. That beautiful wife of yours now has something else to care for other than your complaining ass.

As a bloke you may not realize it but those little bundles of joy take a hell of a lot of work to look after and demand almost constant attention. Even when they’re asleep you can bet your wife is on tender hooks just waiting for that wail that they know is around the corner demanding for attention.

On top of all that she’s also got to keep the house clean and tidy, shit wouldn’t want to give the man of the house something to complain about now would we? Then there’s the shopping and worrying about what the heck she’s going to make for dinner. When you think about it most of us can come home and forget about work while she lives it all 24/7. And on top of all that you expect her to put out for you? What are you some sort of prehistoric caveman or something.

Truth be told most men don’t appreciate their wives, but if they did I bet they would be more than willing to get your rocks off on a more regular basis. So what can you do to attain this goal, keeping in mind that it’s not just for the sex, it’s because you love her and you want to help her. The sex is just a bonus, and oh what a bonus it is.

• Don’t just come home from work, give her a peck on the cheek and then sit down watching TV with a beer in your hand, and if you forget the beer you sure as hell don’t want to yell out for her to get you one.
• Instead take the kids off her hands and attend to their needs for awhile taking some of the stress off her.
• If you see some chores that need to be done don’t complain about it do it yourself basking in the knowledge that you’re helping her out.
• If she’s cooking set the table, and when all is finished clear the table and wash the dishes remembering that while you’ve worked 8 hours she’s got a couple of more on you and there is nothing more tiring than being stressed out over your kids.

Believe me just doing this will help out your cause, but not if you do it just for sex because you have to make it into a regular routine. Also don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her. I’m sure that most women feel they are less than beautiful because they just haven’t the time to attend to their appearance as they once had.

Every now and again it’s probably also a good idea to show her how much you appreciate her by giving her something special like a Ferrero Rocher Hazelnut Chocolates 48 count gift box. Flowers are also make a great show of appreciation and when you can get  bouquets from as low as $34.99 how could you go wrong.

Another good idea is to plan a night of sensual pleasure with her, and  knowing how those beautiful kids of yours are always on her mind you may want to organize their grandparents to look after then every now an again. You can then take her out to dinner and knowing what awaits you both when you get home only accentuates the sexual juices. If you’re feeling really adventurous you may even bring a sexual toy to the restaurant. I’m talking about a remote controlled vibrator which you can order online at Amazon.

I’m talking about the Trinity Mini Remote Control 10 Speed Egg and what is cool about this is that she wears it why you have control of the remote. One thing that I like about Amazon is that you can view real live comment left by people who have bought and used the products, both positive and negative. Here is what one happy customer had to say;

I read mixed reviews on this product and found myself questioning the purchase afterward, but all of my apprehensions were allayed the first time we used this little gem. The 7 settings allow me to tease my wife in a variety of way, when she least expects it. She says it feels wonderful and is so quite that we can use it in public without the risk of making others aware. It has a great range that allows me to activate the egg from the other room.

The only downside to this product is that it is very easy to activate if you have the remote on your keyring. I had it in my pocket and it ran down the batteries the second day we had it. Other than that, it is a great product I would recommend to anyone looking for a bit of adventure.

By the time you get home things should happen of their own accord. In future posts I will include other ways of increasing your sensual pleasure.

Having everything is very much a perception and sometimes you have to think out of the box to come up with that unique gift for Valentines Day. Most people will come up with roses or chocolates or some other mundane thing, but I’m going to help you find something out of the ordinary and seeing as to how this blog is all about sex, why not something of a sexual nature.

You may recall my post, A Special Gift For The Person Who Has Everything, where I highlighted some unique products from Adam and Eve Toys? Well they have extended an offer just for Valentines Day: 50% Off One Item! Coupon Code:Heart10 Valid From 2/1/2010-2/15/2010 and let me tell you these guys offer way more than toys. Let’s take a sneak peak at some of stuff you can find there.

FOR HER

Tempest Bra & Panty Set: This one is pretty HOT! See it from all angles, use it to tempt your lover on the night. Sometimes it’s not what you show, it’s what you are tantalizingly hiding from him.

Heart Pasties 3 Pairs: Dazzle Your Lover with these sexy nipple pasties. They will show him that you’re ready for any bedroom games! The cloth pasties are heart shaped, with a mirrored centerpiece that flashes and sparkles! Package includes 3 pairs.

Bedroom Nurse Costume: This is great for those who want to get into a bit of role playing. With this sexy nurse outfit you can do things to him that he would only ever dream would happen in a hospital.

Erotica Teddy: Unlike one that I mentioned above, this hot little number does not leave much to the imagination. If you wore this while serving dinner I can assure you the meal would be a short one.

Remote Control Fantasy Panty: This is one that is made for both him and her. She wears it and he controls the amount of pleasure she gets. This is a remote controlled vibrating underwear. Dare you wear it out, and if you do when will he choose to tantalize you.

FOR HIM

Major Hardon Camo Thong: Not that I’ve ever been to drill school but I’ve heard it said that, be “the firstest with the mostest” with a contour pouch that gives the man’s package an enhanced profile! Unlined for commando comfort. 1-inch elastic waist band. Sizes M(32-34), L(36-38), XL(40-42). Made in USA.

The Titan Brief: Get your man to wear this and he’ll look like your very own Sex Warrior.

Men’s Tank And Brief Set: Made to show off your man’s jewels in a contoured pouch with this stretchy poly/spandex brief. Get him to turn around and display his buns with its open back! Comes with matching sexy stretch mesh tank top. Royal blue.

Pull Tab Thong: This one is a little different. It a special thong with a tab attached and when you’re good and ready to see his goods––just pull the tab! Velcro snap opens and closes with ease!
Clone-A-WillyExp. 06/30/10: Now here is something really unique. You can actually clone your penis with this erection molding kit. It has everything you need to make a soft rubber dildo of your hard penis – with optional vibrations to please her like never before. Something to remind her of you when you’re not around.

These are just a small sample of what you can find at Adam and Eve Toys, and it’s quite possible, especially as they have such a huge range , that you may decide to buy more that one item. That being the case it may be better to use the following coupon code Get 10% Off Your Entire Order! Coupon Code: TENOFF Expires 06/30/10 instead of the 50% off a single item code that you saw at the beginning of the post.

The question now is, are you daring enough to do something different for Valentines day?

“My husband wants me to give him a blowjob and I can’t bear to bring myself to do it!”

“I don’t mind giving giving him a blowjob but he want’s me to swallow and I just gag. It’s such a turn off.”

Let’s face it, not all women are comfortable giving a blow job, and even less want to go the whole way by sallowing his semen. So what is a woman to do when she wants to make him happy but can’t bring herself to actually doing something she finds repulsive?

The answer is Mastomatic, a unique sex toy that is designed to give the male the sensation of a realistic blowjob. Just like a real blow job it will stroke the penis up and down and even comes with a fully adjustable speed control giving absolute control over the amount of pleasure felt by the male.

So, you see, it can be just the thing for those couples where blowjobs may be causing a rift in the marriage, but the Mastomatic could be so much more. Imagine those couples where the man may ejaculate too quickly for the woman. There may be such feelings of guilt or inadequacy that any further attempt in lovemaking is lost. If one were to introduce the Mastomatic as part of the foreplay with early ejaculation being the whole purpose of it’s use, there would be no need for the lovemaking to stop. It would continue, only this time the male should last a lot longer.

It would also come in handy for those women who have a low libido or the man who has a higher sex drive. Even when the woman is not in the mood to have sex she could use it on her loved one to release all that pent up emotion bringing him to a climax, one more fulfilling than doing it on his own.

The truth of the matter is that not many men would buy one for himself, but for a woman, to show him how much she loves him, perhaps it would make the perfect gift, and seeing how Valentines day is just around the corner, what better time than right now.

With Xmas being just around the corner, there will be a lot of people scratching their heads wondering what to buy their loved one. People often wonder what to buy someone who is perceived to have everything. Perhaps this year it is time to think out of the box.

There is something that every healthy sexual couple has in common, and that is the desire that they are pleasuring their mate as much as they are being pleasured, and when you have been together for awhile, it’s not unusual to wonder if this is actually the case.

Something to keep in mind is no matter if you’re newly weds or if you’ve been married for some years there is nothing wrong with giving that special gift that may just spice up things in the bedroom, or if you’re adventurous in any other room of the house.

Here are a few possibilities for some sexy special Xmas gifts.

For Her

There are a lot of women who think of themselves last, especially if they have kids, and the last thing that they would buy for themselves is some sexy lingerie. So, as the man of the house, you would be doing both of you a favor if you were to consider a nice sexy Wet Look Halter w/ Crotchless Panty & Garter Set for only $27.95. Or if that is a little too raunchy and suggestive you may want to settle for a lovely Crystal Adorned Teddy for only $26.95.

The fact is that they have an enormous selection of sexy outfits and lingerie, too many for me to mention in one post, and you can even get Free Shipping, plus 2 Free Gifts at adamevetoys.com!

NEWS FLASH! You can actually get 50% Off Any One Item at Adamevetoys.com Coupon Code:JOLLY09 Exp: 12/25/09. Yep, this special will only last until 25th of December so you will want to get in early. I’m not sure if the free shipping applies if using this coupon, but then there’s no harm in trying.

The Wi Vibe would make a lovely choice as I’ve heard it was named sex toy of the year. Being a unique clitoral and g-spot vibrator, one that is designed to be worn while you make love. Here is a little excerpt from their website.

The unique We-Vibe, as featured in Cosmopolitan, The Independent, The Sun, Mens Health, Reuters, Playboy and many more, was voted the best sex toy of the year.

The We-Vibe is tiny but has 2 fantastically powerful motors and a supple shape to fit you perfectly and stimulate your g spot and clitoris with exquisite pleasure waves.

Even though it can be worn during intercourse (giving him a rather nice vibe also!) you can just wear your We-Vibe for secret pleasure around the house.

The We-Vibe has a snug fit and is quiet enough to wear under your clothes for secret fun.Try taking it for a walk, in the car or to liven up your next train journey.

The possibilities are endless.

You will find this special product under the “Luxury Sex Toys” section. This is only two selections from hundreds that you can choose from. Imagine how easy it will be to buy something special for almost any occasion.

For Him

Now when it comes to men there are somethings that they probably never consider buying for themselves, and there is one product that may even help out some women. I’m talking about the women who consistently get asked by their man to give them a blow job. Now while some are fine with this others persevere only because they do not want to disappoint. Well ladies, why not buy him a male masturbator, or more specifically, the Mastomatic. Designed to work the penis like a real blowjob this could be the perfect foreplay for any couple, and when you have a real headache you can send him off on his own.

Naturally, you can also follow the above example and buy yourself some sexy lingerie or perhaps something to play out one of his favorite sexual fantasies thereby killing two birds with one stone, something for him and for you.

Whatever you decide, once you consider sex toys and other sexual aids, you have to admit, the possibilities for gifts become endless.

I love being a blogger because you always learn learn something new. I started this blog with some trepidation because although I always thought I was quite proficient in the sex department I knew with some certainty that, what with modern technology and all, I wasn’t keeping up with the times. Little did I know how far behind the times I had actually fallen.

Take cock rings for an example. If someone had asked me what one was before writing this post I would have guessed it had something to do with cock fighting ring!

Thankfully I know know a little bit more about them. I now know that they can be used to enhance the sexual pleasure as well as having the ability to provide a longer, harder and thicker erection. Some cock rings can be specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris heightening the woman’s pleasure as well as the mans.

This Wikipedia article on cock rings is really quite informative, and you should pay particularly close attention to the medical issues as some problems can arise if worn too tightly or for too long a period.

Like everything these days there are a lot to choose from, including vibrating ones. While surfing I also noticed that a lot of women actually buy them as gifts for their husbands, as a special treat that both get to enjoy. Maybe I should leave this post on the computer so that the wife will see it.